вівторок, 14 жовтня 2014 р.

You are a flower!

   Our life is a thread but different people has different ways of existence. That`s why  such threads can be multicoloured, with knots or may be torn not being knitted with others. Life can be spent in tears, be a by-product of the whole community being. But sometimes tears can reduce our stress and absorb bad vibes, pour anger out, make from vulnerable leaf a jubilant blade.
   A person is a flower. It is born, it is growing and then it is taken off by the surrounding world or old age. Childhood is a brick that searches for another bricks and cement in order to build a great house, for the way to achieve the aims so that it can have an impact on others, for taking an interest in the world because only your heart can tell you what to do.

   In this contemporary world, when business is booming, when it`s too hard to live the life to the fullest only instinct and heart prompt you the right way. When the flower is growing different obstacles can disturb it (like ivy) and sometimes it`s too late to consult an expert. Life is full of predators and it is a natural competition. If to put problems into words you can`t know what to expect from friends. They are like other threads that join you but sometimes they are too unreliable to give the secrets away.

   Therefore, not to be cheated you should be guarded but don`t disclose private information at the same time. It does wonders for living in paradise. And in the end you`ll be a flourishing rose, independent, ecstatic flower…

середу, 8 жовтня 2014 р.

Communication. Body language

   Our communication is extremely diverse and consists of different parts. Body language is an inalienable component when we come into contact with different people. Bear in mind that it`s a good way to make generalizations about person`s characteristic features, but sometimes we can misinterpret behavior of our interlocutor. 

   Excessive gestures may inform us that person is an extrovert. But don`t jump into conclusions because it could also be a soul commotion. It should be pointed out that different politics use their gestures as a way of persuasion. Also folded arms may imply strict intention or displeasure.
   Eye contact and smile is a feature of the honest conversation and it really shows friendly relationships. Not necessarily it`s a kind of showing your faith because sometimes it could be psychical domination.
    And what when somebody`s going red? When you observe such situation it`s a good example of fury. Somebody displays verbal warmth and is ready for dialogue fight.

   Lie is always accompanied with combination of losing eye contact, having perspiration on the forehead and trembling in the voice. Some people show their stubbornness and try not to show their lie. They are definitely good actors.
   And finally, there are some interesting facts in relationships between man and woman. Fiddling with hair is a feature of woman who fancies somebody. Man flirting is expressed in smoothing the hair and stroking an earlobe.


   So don`t forget that not only voice is a mean of communication, sometimes body language can show more that you expect!

середу, 1 жовтня 2014 р.

"Wisdom holds a candle to experience, but you`ve got to take the candle and walk alone." Lauren Kate

   

   Firstly, to say the truth, this quotation really expresses the main idea of studying, education, wisdom and knowladges at all and exactly shouldn`t be underestimated. It means that theoretical developments are useless  without taking them itno the suitable direction
   If you`re intelligent, it doesn`t mean that you`re overfilled  with wisdom and extremely wise qoutations. Wisdom is a way of actualizing your brain flexibility, multi-functional opportunities and productive activity. It`s like a simple candle without a fire but when you light it, you`ll discover your own life road. Darkness is an ignorance, candle fire means clarification
   Moreover, you can have an inflamed candle but standing on the one place is a great mistake. Wisdom wants to be shown, it wants to reflect everything you think, you want and have. And thinking is a movement. So the right choice, the most productive way is to take the candle and walk alone. And remember that wisdom isn`t a monotonous song, it`s a dynamic, active and  overwhelming stream of thoughts. We`re all the rulers of our consciousness (mostly), so everything depends on our choice.
   That`s why wisdom holds a candle to experience, but we should lit the fire, keep it and wisdom will burst into flames.